Using the Magic of Your Intention

(If you prefer listening you'll find this topic on my podcast too!) 

When you bring the power of your own intention to your experiences, you create a gateway for positive energy, embodying the frequency of the higher outcomes you choose.  

Instead of passively showing up and reacting to situations, you can consciously shape your experiences and interactions.  

Today, I’m going to give you a tool you can use to bring your own inner magic into your relationships and the events you experience.  

And I have a free, quick-start guide you can use as we go through this episode to make it easier.

(If you'd like to follow along with my free quick-start guide, you can download it at KimWilborn.com/intention.)

Why Intention is So Powerful

We tend to hope for the best, just show up, and then react to whatever’s going on in any given situation. 

But being proactive is so much better!

This tool can really show you the benefits of that, and we’re going to start by thinking of an event coming up that you’re a little nervous about.

Is there something coming up that causes you stress when you think about it?

There’s no wrong answer, and you can do this practice and use this tool over and over again, as often as you want. 

So just choose something and hold it in your mind.

Step 1: Identifying the ‘Don’t Wants’

If you’re worried about something, even a little bit, it means that you’re afraid. 

You’ve got a certain amount of fear—even if it’s a tiny bit—that a certain bad thing might happen.

And it’s a really powerful first step to get clear on what that bad thing is, because you are so much bigger than anything you’re afraid of.

So let’s get clear on what exactly might be worrying you about this upcoming event, and the way we do that is just to write down:

“I’m worried that…”

…and then fill in the blank.

Step 2: Choosing Your Desired Outcome

Now, write down a one-word outcome you’d like to see as a result of this event—an outcome you’d like to experience for you.

We can’t control anyone else, but we can bring an energy that spreads out and uplifts the whole situation for anyone who wants to absorb it.

And we can fill ourselves with that energy so that that’s what we experience, no matter what. 

That’s the magic of our intention.

So go ahead—start off with how you want to feel when you’re in the situation and what you want the outcome of it to be.

Look at it this way:

If you knew that you are creating more of something in the world through going to this event, what would that something be?

An Example from My Own Life

An example from my own life is a party I went to a couple of months ago.

It wasn’t a cocktail party or a big event—just a housewarming party at a friend’s house.

I’m very close with my friend, and I know her family. I like them all a lot, but I don’t see them very often.

And in addition to family, a big group of work friends was invited (in other words, a whole bunch of people I don’t know).

When an event like this comes up, I sometimes catch myself going into "avoidance mode" because it would just be easier not to go. 

But when I do go to events like that, I always have a really good time.

So I was determined to go. 

Step 3: Bringing Magic Into the Situation

When I talk about magic, I’m talking about the power that comes through us from a non-physical source.

We’re usually not taught that we have this power, but when we connect to it, it has an amazing, special feeling.

It’s like the feeling we get when we connect to Guardians, when we use our intuition, or when we’re expressing our true gifts.

So we’re going to be proactive here.

We’re going to choose the energy we want to bring into this event.

For my example, the word I chose was friendship.

Just feel the energy of friendship in your heart right now.

That’s what I chose to bring and embody and focus on, and I had an amazing time with everyone I met at the party.

Step 4: Calling In Your Support

You don’t have to go into this experience alone! 

You can be supported by a whole bunch of Guardians.

So visualize the place where your event will be.

Imagine four Angels standing in the four corners of the space, holding and bringing forth the energy of the highest outcome for whatever is going on inside the room. 

Imagine your energetic roots connecting you to the love of the Earth, grounding and stabilizing you. 

Call forth a Guardian—or Guardians—to support you. 

It could be Unicorns, Dragons, Tree Spirits, Angels, or any other Guardian Being. 

If you’re in doubt, call on Guardian Unicorns—that’s what I do!

Step 5: Embodying Your Intention

Now, feel yourself fully enveloped by the energy of your own Guardian Angel—that Being and energy field that holds the pattern for the highest fulfillment of you in this life.

Recognize that in doing this, in using this tool, you are acting as a Gateway Guardian.

This is your gift. 

It will continue to flow, anchored in this space, for anyone who is open to receiving it.

Step 6: Bringing Intention into Everyday Life

This practice isn’t just for events that make you nervous—it can be used for any situation where you want to consciously shape your experience. 

 Whether it’s a meeting, a family gathering, or even a casual conversation, you can bring your unique magic into any interaction. 

By consistently using this process, you’ll notice a shift—not just in how your experiences unfold, but in how you see yourself.  

You’ll become someone who embodies the energy of their highest intentions, radiating positivity, love, and transformation everywhere you go!

If you’d like to go deeper, download the free quick-start guide at KimWilborn.com/intention.  

I’d love to hear how this process works for you! Feel free to reach out and share your insights with me at [email protected].